Do you ever get annoyed with the children who "tattle tale" on each other for unnecessary reasons? I know I do! Something we decided to try was a "Talk It Out" area for the students who needed to work on solving their own problems instead of always coming to the teacher. There are posters listed in this area with good problem solving questions such as "Is your body okay?" or "What can I do to make you feel better?" This will really minimize the amount of excessive tattle tales and maximize the amount of good social skills the students will develop!
I recommend that this area be presented to the students a few weeks into the school year. Also, 2 teachers should model the language and behavior that should be done in the Talk It Out spot. After the teachers model it, let the students practice modelling it too! Guide them to use good language. This helps the students understand the purpose of talking it out with a friend.
Examples of good questions to model for the students ask:
"Is your body okay?"
"Are your feelings okay?"
"What can I do to make you feel better? A hug? A handshake? A high-five? A silly face?"
